I just come up with this question of mine because its been a debate for some of my friends that they do prefer mind over heart. Some say, much better it would be equal....what do you think?
I think that when they are equal it can be called harmony.... as for me I feel that sometimes my mind rules my heart but I don't think that that's the right way...... unfortunately people often don't hear of don't want to hear what their hearts tell them. Do you often listen to your heart?
hello yana;-) thanks for sharing that harmony comes when there is equality...yes, i surely is! i do listen or use my heart sometimes but i should let my mind involve also coz i do believe too much emotions is a big risk. For me, as of now, we should be more open minded and know things what's best for us....
I feel that depending on the situation, a variable combination of mind and heart should be applied. Some situations call for mind, rather than the heart and vice versa, and most others something in between. So the harmony does not necessarily have to be an equal but a combination that suits the occasion.
I think what's best is to think by using your heart and to feel by using your mind.
Mostly when we think, we tend to prioritize our own benefit or self. But using our heart, we can put ourselves in other's shoes. This way we could think much more wisely.
And when we feel with our heart, we usually over dramatized most of the feeling inside. But using our mind, we could really ask ourselves, is that really feel this bad? And we could feel fairly.
just a thought:
there are times when you need to use logic or emotions or both... there will come a time, when intuition will guide you what to use and when. :)
I use more logic than emotions, Sometimes emotions will cloud a person's thinking, and therfore i would block my emotions for rashinally concludions.
Relationships? More logicly. I don't take anyhing personally